Each of our souls are born pure. Most of us "has to" believe
that we become who we are through our environment. The happiness we receive and
the struggles we face to achieve what we dream. The path we live each day and
learning everyday with new challenges. The experiences we have gained
throughout puts us at where we stand Right Now.
The divide between good and bad comes into the perspective from the
judgments, we continuously receive from others. A new struggle begins at this
point. As we all are dependent on the acceptance of the other human, it
requires us to change from who we are to what they want. The amount of
acceptance we are willing to get from the other person equals to the amount of
change we apply into our lives. Each bridge of relationship we build around us
makes us change, one or the other way. Along with each change, we lose a bit of
our pure original self.
It is indeed the society has made us who we are, but it is
important for each of us to remain the individuality of our own selves. The
inner true self we have deep within us wakes every now and then. The urge of
becoming the intended self, create waves each time we self realize. It comes out
in moments that we feel we are in control of the situation. Truth is we have
never been in the control on any situation. Some say its fate which is
controlling us. Others say it’s a pre-written menu script of our creator. Debates
can be held for things that aren’t in control of anyone of us. Why not adding
another perspective to the same. Each of us has been bestowed with energy, which stimulates based on the needs of our inner selves.
What is it really that our inner self want? Being Free,
Peaceful, Self-satisfaction so on it goes a list of common needs. Achieving a certain goal does not end the mission of any human. As long as
he lives he would want something. What if, we limit our own needs? The noblest
of humans such as Dala I Lama, Lord Buddha, so on up to our beloved PBUH Prophet
Mohamed SAW we have seen selflessness as their common strength. The higher
person goes within a community, the person becomes of lesser needs and control
of one’s own self. In making the other happy not because one is appreciated but
making others happy make them feel fulfilled. We are not prophets, each of us
can start by doing something small to someone. By giving space to other person
while we wait queue or giving out free education of your knowledge to someone
who is in need.