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Sunday, June 29, 2008

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Habbits makes us who we are . . .

Feeling good and great for what we did is something we celebrate quite often. I wonder how many of us realize our great achievements are not only our work. There have been people around us supporting us and guiding us to reach the targets we achieve.

It’s a simple concept of integration in the nature. It needs to have some basics factor for anything to happen. A tree would not grow unless it has soil, air, water and sunlight. As well it needs birds, bees, wind, etc for pollination. It is just integration of all the important factors needed for anything to happen. It is like wise for humans too.

A child needs the guidance from the parents and people around him to be civilized. We enroll our toddlers in nursery schools. Have we wondered about the need for that nursery school? The educational foundation of the toddler with great care with child centered learning is the modern days nursery education. The Auntie in the nursery school would have to lay the basics of education with the understanding the toddlers behavior. A primary school, secondary and higher secondary schools works in the same tone.

The point I need to make here is that a youth we see todays has not been developed at the stage where they are now in one day. It might have been within one of the stages in their life which they were not properly handled or a wrong massage to their brains. I am asking you the reader of this article that who would take the responsibility in such cases? Where shall we start if we need to avoid these problems?

Importance of acknowledgment for what others do is something quite important. Even when you feel nothing it is but expression the words of gratitude is something we do not see in our communities. People might not have a million dollar to give. Its not every who does something because he wants something in return. But just as a gesture of good will. On the other hand thanking someone for nothing, we would not loose anything from ourselves.

I wonder how many among us do practice this simple philosophy.

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

The friend you can depend on. . .

It has been a while, I have been evaluating who and who are my real friends. Who would be there for you when you need one?

When I look all around me there is no one who can be ejected or not supportive. Therefore the mission for evaluating became really challenging. More I visualize on the topic about it more I see how I may choose to evaluate. The most challenging aspect I found was that friends who I know as close are people who have been there for a long period of time and time has evolved their behaviors and ways of life. Depending on how much they have learn from the experiences and the knowledge they gained.

Just making the long story short, my conclusions for evaluating friends are based on who I am to my friends as a simple conclusion. Where the reverse came to conclude my idea of the closest dependable friends I have. Where ones who might want my support and unity become the most dependable friends I see.

This made me think what I am capable is what I am valued for. So its on to me to be more capable to have more dependable friends in life.

Sunday, May 18, 2008

Your dreams are your reality


Silence explored

When do we stop having problems? Or shall i say a point where we have nothing to worry about?

Its a tendency to find out solutions for problem which we have invented our selves. Sometimes things just happen when you do not have a solution. We feel that we are lucky on such occasions. It is very balanced and your luck is something you create, would be the right answer in such incidences.

Everything you do is the process of making a dream come true. The key of these dreams are your inner drive for your needs and wants. If you do not want anything then you will not be able to search for it. If you do not know then you cant logically want for it to happen. Its our environment and the information we receive which teaches us what we want and how we want it.

You as a human being, the smartest animal on earth you have the power to achieve the dreams when you need to. There is always a process depending on how much you want it where your brain will work on it. Its you who makes things happening to you...

Dream positive and look for opportunities to make your dreams come true. . .

Friday, March 21, 2008

Live by loving. . . How?


A good question to ask or to wonder about! I do not think I need to explain what living and loving is but still how can we live by the principle of love is something I do not see most of us discuss about.
It was a tough day when I needed a break I asked my boss can a take a leave. She appreciated the concern of taking a break. Well I was restless on the bed and started to wonder about the issues that were open and could not shut down. Then thought of the theory I learned to slowdown the heartbeat and neutralizing the thoughts. While I was in the meditation process, a common solution came as the final shut down process. Well I know its quite unusual to have a one solution to all, but I can guarantee that it is a real wonderful option to choose.
All we do in our lives while we live is mainly solving problems which arise on day to day basis. Most of the happenings are uncontrollable to us for many reasons. We cannot expect something to happen unless it happens.
When you look into thick jungles, we see animals feel things before it happens. Why do we humans do not feel it? Why cant we allow our senses to feel the threats and love that we are about to receive. One answer is that we do not care to feel it. . . We are too busy with our worldly desires.
Understanding the inner thoughts and loving yourself is an ideology which a lot of us have forgotten. The reality is that we do not consider the simple and sophisticated world we live in. We forget to take care of our selves but we keep bringing up our needs to have the secondary wants. Where we forget almost everything other than the work we attend to.
We are enslaved by the things we need. Then we complain about the difficulties without thinking of the great things we are bestowed with. The love we have from the day we were born. And the love we need to give into our souls through the nature. The love we tend to receive from the nature is within us.
It is we, who are suppose to change in order to see the change that we want for us. Love your self by behaving kind to yourself then automatically you receive the love you need from others around you.

Love to live, then you are living to love. . .