Habbits makes us who we are . . .

Feeling good and great for what we did is something we celebrate quite often. I wonder how many of us realize our great achievements are not only our work. There have been people around us supporting us and guiding us to reach the targets we achieve.

It’s a simple concept of integration in the nature. It needs to have some basics factor for anything to happen. A tree would not grow unless it has soil, air, water and sunlight. As well it needs birds, bees, wind, etc for pollination. It is just integration of all the important factors needed for anything to happen. It is like wise for humans too.

A child needs the guidance from the parents and people around him to be civilized. We enroll our toddlers in nursery schools. Have we wondered about the need for that nursery school? The educational foundation of the toddler with great care with child centered learning is the modern days nursery education. The Auntie in the nursery school would have to lay the basics of education with the understanding the toddlers behavior. A primary school, secondary and higher secondary schools works in the same tone.

The point I need to make here is that a youth we see todays has not been developed at the stage where they are now in one day. It might have been within one of the stages in their life which they were not properly handled or a wrong massage to their brains. I am asking you the reader of this article that who would take the responsibility in such cases? Where shall we start if we need to avoid these problems?

Importance of acknowledgment for what others do is something quite important. Even when you feel nothing it is but expression the words of gratitude is something we do not see in our communities. People might not have a million dollar to give. Its not every who does something because he wants something in return. But just as a gesture of good will. On the other hand thanking someone for nothing, we would not loose anything from ourselves.

I wonder how many among us do practice this simple philosophy.

The friend you can depend on. . .

It has been a while, I have been evaluating who and who are my real friends. Who would be there for you when you need one?

When I look all around me there is no one who can be ejected or not supportive. Therefore the mission for evaluating became really challenging. More I visualize on the topic about it more I see how I may choose to evaluate. The most challenging aspect I found was that friends who I know as close are people who have been there for a long period of time and time has evolved their behaviors and ways of life. Depending on how much they have learn from the experiences and the knowledge they gained.

Just making the long story short, my conclusions for evaluating friends are based on who I am to my friends as a simple conclusion. Where the reverse came to conclude my idea of the closest dependable friends I have. Where ones who might want my support and unity become the most dependable friends I see.

This made me think what I am capable is what I am valued for. So its on to me to be more capable to have more dependable friends in life.