life,Living,philosophy,problems
life,Living,philosophy,problems
I wonder who does not dream. I wonder how many of those dreams can come true. Life is wonderful for people who can look through and walk through their dreams till the end. What I have learned is consistency is very important in achieving life goals. Sticking what you want in your head and visualizing the goal as reality is supposed to be the theory of achieving your life goals. Each has their own perspectives on this issue while I shall say from my experience there is more than just visualizing making things smoother.
When we ride into details the dream we have is key objective and reaching there might be short or long depending on what you want. We have an age period of 70 year to calculate with a plus or minus 10 in natural life span. Some goes beyond that but its important your goal has to achieved within the span. Say one is 25 and what one focuses is an achievement to be completed at the age of 65, what that goal would be. Anything is possible as long as you believe and have faith in it to be achieved. But the walk through shall be detailed in a dream plan, which shall include you your life partner, your kids and your associates and how financial consideration along with possible conflicts.
Your life partner is supposed to be one of the most important factors to visualize. What kind of specific features and attributes you need from your life partner. Social and family values that you need your partner to have. What kind of a living style you need your partner to support you. The environment your kids need to be at and the education you need them to have and the possibility of your kids’ involvement in your life goal and how you will train them to fulfill your dreams. Once you know what you want you don’t have to do much. Things will start falling into places in time. The most important factor to understand is not be frustrated in anything along the way.
At first affair you might not have the correct person as your partner but you need to be consistent on the goal then there can be a second person who can be with you for your needs or if not the third or fourth until you get the right person you need to believe in your goal.
Usual picture is when one is not up to your expectation you start regretting for having that person and start hating the failed relationship. This ends up getting stuck on the way rather focusing the big picture. We need to learn to forgive and forget and go ahead in our lives. Or you will get stuck in between your life goal and where you started.
The usual next step for people who gets stuck and who can’t forgive and forget is even in the second affair one try to compare in contrast the past one with the present. Ends up failing again and again loosing hope for the future and achieving the goals one started living for. I wonder how many are there in our society who is stuck with their past.